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Boyle’s Law, Re-Written

For a fixed amount of an ideal gas kept at a fixed temperature, P [pressure] and V [volume] are inversely proportional (while one increases the other decreases).

That, of course, is the original Boyle’s Law.

As far as I’m concerned, however, the new version of it goes – Never judge by appearances.

Unless you have spent the last week in suspended animation, you are bound to have been sent links, tweets, e-,mails, and sundry other indications pointing you towards the magnificent performance by a “rough diamond” in Britain’s Got Talent... I ought to know – I sent zillions of those messages, myself.

Hot on the heels of young Farrel Smith, the teenager with the golden voice (http://www.wiganlive.co.uk/forum/showthread.php?p=7289 ) comes another unexpected jewel – Susan Boyle ( http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9lp0IWv8QZY ). And I challenge anyone who still has some sensibilities to keep back the tears, during either performance, or both

Frail-looking Farrel’s mighty voice belied her appearance. And when homely to the point of dowdy Susan came onstage, most people – including the judges – expected her to be something straight out of La Corrida (if they know the show).

Like most super-talented people, both Farrel and Susan have no airs and graces. They sing because they love to sing – and the fact that their voice is created for singing is a nice bonus.

The first “yes” made their eyes shine – the second one, after an eternal moment, hit a message to some corner of their brain, that they had “made it” – and the third yes will probably be imprinted in their hearts and souls as one of the best moments in their lives.

Daily, most of us make split-second decisions about people, based on appearance or circumstances. What is worse is that we sometimes rely on second-hand information (read gossip) about a person, when formulating a judgement... this, despite the fact the adage “judge not, lest you be judged” has been dinned into us since cradle days.

Of course, there are several (other) proverbs that we use to salve our conscience – both British ones (There’s no smoke without fire) and Maltese ones (Għidli ma’ min tagħmilha u ngħidlek x’int...).

The fact remains, however, that even if you boast you can read people’s minds and souls and hearts by looking behind their eyes, there still exist some innermost corners into which you might not be able to penetrate.

Farrel’s rendition of Ave Maria and Susan’s performance of I Dreamed A Dream merely hint at the wealth of talent that sets them apart from the rest of us. The standing ovations both received were the cherry on their cake.

In the same way, someone’s boldly brassy blonde hair, and someone else’s perfectly coiffure hair, only indicate what you think they might be like... or the image, the veneer, they want to present to the world. As Susan Boyle herself said, “Modern society is too quick to judge people on their appearances.”

It is interesting to note that American television presenter Kathie Lee Gifford actually grabbed a sock – prepared for the next segment of her programme – and used it to wipe her eyes as she watched Susan sing. Ashton Kutcher put the link on Twitter... and Oprah invited her across the Pond, to her show.

As anticipated, the public relations people will ask Farrel and Susan to change their looks, in conformity with the “image” the public expects from “super-stars”. Whether – and if they do, how much – they bow to this pressure, remains to be seen.

Inevitably, some sections of the Press chose to be smarmy: The New Zealand Herald, for instance, described Susan as “A middle-aged volunteer church worker with the voice of an angel is Britain's latest unlikely showbiz star.” But this was more than compensated for by the French news agency AFP’s description of a “stunning musical debut”.

Once, when I worked as a facilitator for children with different needs, my young charge was a child who would not consent to colouring in the sheets as his peers so enjoyed doing.

I was determined to change that, but when I tried to coax him into giving me a reason, he always replied that he did not want to. One more try, I always told myself – to no avail.

However, one morning, just when I was about to pick up the green crayon to make a couple of dots in the vine leaves attached to a bunch of grapes (which I knew the child loved), he grabbed my crayon and lobbed it across the room, yelling “waħdek, waħdek!” ...his command of Maltese was not too good.

So, I said to him “Fine, young man, let’s see what you can do with this...” and handed him the picture and the holder of crayons.

The rest of the class had used to outer line of the bunch as a boundary; they had drawn the whole bunch in as one silhouette-unit. But this lovely child had drawn each grape separately, complete with shading and veins on the leaves.... All he had wanted was to receive a page unmarked by someone because he felt he could take his won decisions when it came to selecting colours.

This blog is a tribute to all those of us who do not fit into preconceived module-forms for what “singers” “writers”, “children”, “and indeed “humans” ought to be like.

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Alfred Grech (on 2/7/09)
Prosit Tanja. Very well said. To Enzo - you don't have to worry. You have an excellent voice plus you're also good looking :))
Joan Fong (on 6/5/09)
Lovely Commentary, Tania! Boyle's Law indeed! Appeals to me as a Physics teacher.
What the papers don't seem to care about is that Susan Boyle is Catholic, is a parish volunteer, yes, in the Legion of Mary, which is the organisation I myself have been in for over 45 years. Her parish priest was interviewed in this article in our Catholic News. He says he isn't surprise at her "victory" -- he has seen this happening many times in the annual Legion of Mary visit to Lourdes when she stopped being a dowdy fellow pilgrim the moment she opened her mouth and sang. She became somebody.

Thanks too for supplying the link to Farrel, the 12 year old with the powerful voice praying Our Lady's most common prayer of the Hail Mary. What a Catholic twosome! -- Joan
Linda Lowen (on 21/4/09)
Tanja, I *was* in suspended animation and living under a rock for the past week (a beach vacation to be precise) so I arrived home Sunday night in the midst of Boyle-mania, completely oblivious to what was happening.

Had I read your post last Friday, I wouldn't have bothered to write my own. You have said everything that needed to be said.

What I resent most are the pretty people who say, "Nobody would be paying attention to her if she was pretty." Not true, not true. Her extraordinary voice would rise above any external factors. But it is true that she provides a teachable moment for adults and children alike.

I hope the advent of Susan Boyle corrects a tendency of Western culture to glorify and worship the lovely to the exclusion of the talented. Looks fade, but talent grows with practice and experience. Long live Susan Boyle!
enzo gusman (on 21/4/09)
dear Tanja......how very well written !! Yes, unfortunately,
most are inclined to judge a book by its cover......and,
especially in show business, as I have been saying :on
air" for several years, it's how good one looks not how
good one's talents are !! The "sweet revenge" mentailty
may have driven Susan to appear as a "nerd"....only to
HIT HARDER once her angelic voice came through !
If that was the case, then KUDOS for Boyle for she truly
hit the note......in more ways than one !

James Hamilton (on 20/4/09)
This show produces the inept, at times ridiculous, and at best amateurish performances, but very occationally it turns up a little gem. This time it found a diamond in Susan Boyle's performance. Although she looked the most unlikely person to produce such a heavenly voice, she certainly did surprise everyone.....As the saying goes , never judge a book by it's cover She is the female version of Paul Potts, last years winner. Paul was a shy, unassuming man who sang opera, and he did extremely well as this video shows. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZGFXMvMcmbs
Joyce Scarbrough (on 19/4/09)
I once worked with a man who looked and dressed like a pimp. He had long curly hair that he kept oiled to a high sheen, he wore big hats with feathers, tight pants, shoes with big heels, and he had several gold teeth. When he transferred into the same office as me, I discovered that he was one of the sweetest men I'd ever met. He didn't smoke or drink, he was a family man who cooked for his whole family every weekend, he was soft-spoken and modest, and he was a big fan of Kenny G!

I vowed to never prejudge anyone again and have tried my best to keep it.
Doris Kelly (on 18/4/09)
I love the fact that we don't all fit the same mold. God, who is the master creator, always likes to keep things interesting. If we always judge someone on how they look, we miss the heart, mind and soul of the individual. What a wonderful surprise to find the beauty hidden within a pair of bushy eyebrows and dumpy body. God bless you Tanja. Well spoken.
Maureen Griffin (on 18/4/09)
Imagine what people could bring to the world if they weren't shut down because they didn't fit the mold!!!
Chris Gruppetta (on 18/4/09)
We all love unlikely heroes, and 'sweet revenge' stories ... though of course quite a lot of the contrast would be stage-managed, but anyway ... a nice uplifting story for the week :)
Tanja Cilia (on 18/4/09)
And now someone has unearthed one of my Golden Oldies favourites, "Cry Me A River", sung by Susan for charity in 1999.... listen to it here:
http://tinyurl.com/d9xgv8
Susan J Berger (on 17/4/09)
Beautifully expressed, Tanja. I think the most important gift we can give ourselves to to refrain from judgment calls based on preconceptions. I met John Travolta in 1979 at the height of his popularity. (My husband was playing his uncle in Urban Cowboy.) When he cae over to the house, I expected him to be an overindulged celebrity. Within 2 minutes, all I wanted to do was hug him and say "There, there! You are a sweet boy and everybody loves you. Really!" Even my youg nephew and niece felt his shyness. Someone asked them if they had seen John Travolta going in to the building and they both said no. Yesterday I went through a tax audit. I had a preconceived notion of what an IRS agent would be like. I couldn't have been more off. I am trying harder to look for the gift people give me and not have an expectation of the form it will take

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